He said that forgiveness was the result of two components.
- Understanding why things happen.
- Accepting that there was a reason for it.
He also showed me that it should be spelled like this… “Fore-give” He said that true forgiveness is giving love before understanding and acceptance has been reached.
I recently had another short dialogue with Abraham regarding forgiveness. I thought it was fascinating and I thought that you might enjoy it as well.
Forgiveness is a very useful technique, however, it is not atonement. Forgiveness opens the user up to restoring love, but it does not heal the pattern that caused the problem in the first place. Without atonement, it leaves both parties open to repeating the pattern again.
Atonement creates harmony because all parties understand why everything happened at the soul level. Then, they either accept or deny their own responsibility for it. If the conflict between these parties does not clear. It is possible to insist they be held accountable for their behavior by requesting the souls receive divine counseling.
How would I go about asking for divine Counseling?
Asking for divine counseling is a last resort!
First, place the two parties in a Full Court of Atonement with their willingness to understand how things came to happen. There is something in their individual histories that is causing the conflict.
I ______________place __________________ &___________________in a Full Court of Atonement for the purpose of healing their willingness to understand how things came to happen. I bring in all their reason’s not to understand and all of the benefits of being willing to understand. I now ask to address any and all unhealed past conflicts that they are willing to address and have everyone entangled in this energy brought into the Court of Atonement and heal them all on the astral plane.
What we are doing is trying to dig under any mental blocks that refuse to allow the conscious mind to look at painful moments in the past, without breaching their free will not to.
With the Court of Atonement, the soul can look, and then choose to bring the information to the conscious mind or not.
Wait a few days. If the desired harmony is not restored, we suggest recalling the Court of Atonement and requesting the spirits of both parties receive divine counseling.
Remember that the spirit is different than the soul. It is the thoughts that work within the conscious and subconscious mind. The soul knows everything about itself, while the conscious mind only knows what is in this lifetime. By requesting that the spirit receive counseling, we are asking that the subconscious mind receive healing information.
If you are involved in this disagreement then always include yourself in the counseling. – Because all problems begin inside. Therefore, all solutions are found within yourself.
If the desired results are still not seen, harmony can still be obtained through the act of forgiveness. You may place yourself in a Full Court of Atonement and ask for a mandate of forgiveness!
This forces your own mind to look for ways of restoring harmony! At first you may still feel upset, but the hardening of the heart will soften allowing love and kindness to return.
Because of free will, you can only mandate yourself!
As we have stated forgiveness is the act of giving love before it is earned. Fore-giveness.
Therefore, if you see the results you are looking for, it is best to place yourself back into a Full Court of Atonement with the person in question. Because, only with Atonement will you put a stop to the repeating pattern.
© Amy Jo Ellis February 26 2018
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