Forgiveness vs Atonement

Years ago, Abraham described Forgiveness as a destination, not an action.

He said that forgiveness was the result of two components.

  1. Understanding why things happen.
  2. Accepting that there was a reason for it.

He also showed me that it should be spelled like this… “Fore-give” He said that true forgiveness is giving love before understanding and acceptance has been reached.

I recently had another short dialogue with Abraham regarding forgiveness. I thought it was fascinating and I thought that you might enjoy it as well.

Forgiveness is a very useful technique, however, it is not atonement. Forgiveness opens the user up to restoring love, but it does not heal the pattern that caused the problem in the first place.  Without atonement, it leaves both parties open to repeating the pattern again.

Atonement creates harmony because all parties understand why everything happened at the soul level. Then, they either accept or deny their own responsibility for it.   If the conflict between these parties does not clear.  It is possible to insist they be held accountable for their behavior by requesting the souls receive divine counseling.

How would I go about asking for divine Counseling?

Asking for divine counseling is a last resort!
First, place the two parties in a Full Court of Atonement with their willingness to understand how things came to happen. There is something in their individual histories that is causing the conflict. 

I ______________place __________________ &___________________in a Full Court of Atonement for the purpose of healing their willingness to understand how things came to happen. I bring in all their reason’s not to understand and all of the benefits of being willing to understand. I now ask to address any and all unhealed past conflicts that they are willing to address and have everyone entangled in this energy brought into the Court of Atonement and heal them all on the astral plane.  

What we are doing is trying to dig under any mental blocks that refuse to allow the conscious mind to look at painful moments in the past, without breaching their free will not to.

With the Court of Atonement, the soul can look, and then choose to bring the information to the conscious mind or not.

Wait a few days. If the desired harmony is not restored, we suggest recalling the Court of Atonement and requesting the spirits of both parties receive divine counseling.

Remember that the spirit is different than the soul. It is the thoughts that work within the conscious and subconscious mind.  The soul knows everything about itself, while the conscious mind only knows what is in this lifetime.   By requesting that the spirit receive counseling,  we are asking that the subconscious mind receive healing information.

If you are involved in this disagreement then always include yourself in the counseling. –  Because all problems begin inside. Therefore, all solutions are found within yourself. 

If the desired results are still not seen,  harmony can still be obtained through the act of forgiveness.  You may place yourself in a Full Court of Atonement and ask for a mandate of forgiveness!

This forces your own mind to look for ways of restoring harmony!  At first you may still feel upset, but the hardening of the heart will soften allowing love and kindness to return.

Because of free will, you can only mandate yourself!

As we have stated forgiveness is the act of giving love before it is earned.  Fore-giveness.

Therefore, if you see the results you are looking for, it is best to place yourself back into a Full Court of Atonement with the person in question. Because, only with Atonement will you put a stop to the repeating pattern.

© Amy Jo Ellis February 26 2018

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I am your average everyday mother of 3 with now 3 grandkids. I am also a singer/songwriter performing in country clubs and dinner houses. But behind all of this, there is the ability to listen deeper into my own thoughts and hear where the good ideas are actually coming from. It's the same place that I came from... God
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1 Response to Forgiveness vs Atonement

  1. morningmargiestarmargie says:

    Hi Amy Jo!  Thank you so much for this vital information that I really need at this time.  I have done every form of clearing work with my bobber, numerous Court of Atonement’s,  Forgiveness exercises, and healing work, to repair my relationship with my oldest daughter. We have deep past life issues of anger, resentment, jealousy, and even murder. I had a past life recall while on the table with another MariEL Healing Practitioner  (I have been a healer since 1991), where she killed me. Try as I may, nothing is working to create Peace and Harmony in our home. (We live together, but that is another long story)I need a “healers” healer. We go all the way back to Ancient Egypt Mystery Schools, and perhaps even before.  I have a question : Before I call in the Divine, is it necessary that the two of us speak together about these much deeper issues? I believe forgiveness has everything to do with our issues?  It may even be that I am unable to forgive. In past lives, as I was told, she had always kept me under her control, so she could stay ahead of me in our studies. My past life recollection of her murdering me was kind of a surprise, but not really. Ever since her birth, she has been a difficult child, even at 34 years old, she has never given me a break.  So forgiveness is definitely needed, and I have tried everything.  So, can I, may I, should I, as a last resort, call upon the Divine for help.Do you think that this is the type of situation that Abraham was speaking about? I am in heartfelt Gratitude for your answer.  Love, Light and Blessings!  Margie Curtiss  P.S. Please know that we are civil and nice to each other, however the underlying tension as of late, is becoming unbearable for me.  Sent from my T-Mobile 4G LTE Device


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