Help for Healers and Empaths

I woke up remembering a lesson that was taught to me by my mentor in Puerto Rico.  He had had a very hard day and he asked me if I could come and sit with him so that he could, and I quote “Empty my trash can.” 

I must have looked confused by this statement so he went on and said, “When we get together like this and I tell you all my problems and my troubles of the day, I am intending to get the weight of these problems off of my chest and I am very literally emptying my trash can and I am putting this trashy energy into you.  When I do this, you will begin to carry some of my burdens for me. 

I do not empty my trash can into you with any wish for you to continue carrying the trash for me.  If you do that, you will become angry on my behalf and judge the situations.   I am not asking you to do that.    I would like you to empty your trash can when we are done.  Go home and take a shower.  As you wash yourself, see yourself washing it all off of yourself and send it down the drain.”  ( I imagine light pouring down through my body, clearing, cleansing and healing every cell!)

As healers we become other people’s trash cans!
Clients do not usually come to us to tell us how wonderful their life is.  They tell us their stories. They share with us their dirty little secrets that are actually the root cause of their health and relationship problems.  When they do this, we take on their stories for them and lift their burden just as my mentor described. It is our job to relieve them of these burdens that they’ve been carrying. But it is extremely important to remember to empty “Your trash can” and not carry their stories home or worse allow their story to become your story and carry them around for years.

We can use the Court of Atonement to empty this trash can! You can take their story and put it directly into the Court of Atonement and ask for it to be healed on the astral plane. You can state it as simply as that! I, ________ place myself in a full court of atonement for the purpose of emptying the trash that other people have dumped into me. I take all their stories and place these stories into a Full Court of Atonement at their point of origin and I ask for them to be corrected on the astral plane for myself as well as for everyone who in involved in the story!

This would put a stop to all of the ailments of others showing up in our energy after we’ve worked on a client.

I try to do this after every single session with a client.    I’m not perfect and I forget, later in the day after I have an argument with my husband or a cashier…  I will realize that I have taken something on.  Is is an entity?  Is it an ET?  Maybe!  Because I have compromised my energy and not “Washed my hands of it”  or “Emptied my trash can!”   or “Healed it in the Violet Flame”  Or “Placed it in a Court of Atonement to heal it all the way back at it’s point of origin to be rid of it entirely!!”

I, __________ place myself, __________ into a Full Court of Atonement for the purpose of searching out and removing any trash energy that anyone anywhere had dumped into my proverbial trash can.   I ask to have my energy searched through and collect all these undesirable stories of others as well as my own and place them into their own Courts of Atonement at their points of origin to correct this energy for myself as well as everyone else involved for the highest and best out come possible!

I chose to post this as a blog so that you could easily share it with like minded friends as well as any empath groups or healing groups you might belong to. 

Amy Jo Ellis
January 7th 2019

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I am your average everyday mother of 3 with now 3 grandkids. I am also a singer/songwriter performing in country clubs and dinner houses. But behind all of this, there is the ability to listen deeper into my own thoughts and hear where the good ideas are actually coming from. It's the same place that I came from... God If you have any questions, you can reach me online at
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