Have, Do, Be. Vs Be, Do Have
People thing that they need to HAVE something to make them happy before they will DO the things that make them happy and then they will BE happy.
Neale Donald Walsh, Author of Conversations With God, taught a lesson on BEING happy and DOING the things happy does, so that you can HAVE the things that happy has.
Watch your language for when you are looking to have something before you allow yourself to feel a certain way.
“Someday when I have enough money I will pay off all my debts and then I can relax.” Try Relaxing and imagining how good it feels to have your bills paid off and enjoy the moment now.
DOING this exercise will put you in alignment with paying off those bills. Where as, beating yourself up over having the bills only pushes the solution to the problem farther away